If you're 26, would you date a 20 year old?

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I love being with her, quarky, and spontaneous, almost eccentric. Given that your post 1.

We were intimate the day after we met. I just sometimes dislike the thought that it's still considered more of a topic than having an older man. But that girl is going to cheat on him or dump him eventually.

If you're 26, would you date a 20 year old? - I have read through all the post here and I can relate. Why they would bother is beyond me, especially when many of them will be out competed and alone because they themselves wasted their good years chasing the unobtainable for most.

Ok, well yours truly is the 36 year old. She is gorgeous, but 21 at the same time. Ive been down this road before too! For whatever reason begining in my late twenties the only girls Ive gone out with or that seem to show interest is the younger set. I think sometimes even if someone my age is interested that its possible that I just dont pick up on it. Younger woman seems to be less subtle I suppose? Please note that I do not go out and seek younger woman at all. For some reason every single girl Ive dated Ive met at work as opposed to meeting out. When I was 28 I met a 20 year old girl and we were together for 3 years. Second girlfriend since late 20s until now was 20 and I was 31, we too were together for 3 years. They both ultimately ended because the girls would inverably begin to change and have a tendency to start partying with new sets of friends they went on to meet. Usually I would just drop off the face of the earth after the breakup. Now the first two tried to come back hard after a long period of time... My last ex hasnt yet but its only been a year and a half so who knows Needless to say I am pretty experienced with the younger set at this point in my life. So given what Ive said... Well, what are you looking for? Something long term, in the sense of committment, leading to marriage? Chances are, a younger woman, especially at 21 isn't looking to get married and have kids.. She's just starting out in life, establishing a career or just finishing college.. You seem to have a pattern going, so if you want to go for it, but expect the same results as before. You and this girl are in two different places in life.. Do you want different results? Or are you just looking for a good time? I've had similar experiences dating girls in their early twenties. If you're looking for something with more chance of a future I'd be cautious of getting involved with someone so much younger. And I've always found it creepy when women date men old enough to be there fathers. So I think you need to think carefully about what you want for the future. Weigh the pros and cons, risks and benefits, and go from there. When I was 28 I met a 20 year old girl and we were together for 3 years. Second girlfriend since late 20s until now was 20 and I was 31, we too were together for 3 years. They both ultimately ended because the girls would inverably begin to change and have a tendency to start partying with new sets of friends they went on to meet. Usually I would just drop off the face of the earth after the breakup. I was going to be the minority and say that it could work... It's obviously not working out for you. From age 20-23 I was in a relationship with my ex who was 31 when we began dating and 34 when we broke up. For the most part it was a healthy and loving relationship, until the end anyways, and we learned a lot from each other. However, and not to toot my own horn, but my belief is that girls in that age group 18-21 who are actually mature enough to have a strong, healthy, happy relationship with a man in his 30's or any man for that matter , are in the vast minority. Therefore, given your past experience, I can't really understand why you'd keep trying something that obviously isn't working. It's all about if you can handle it, and can she. If you both live similar lifestyles and want the same things, then I can't see an issue. If she's wanting to go out partying every week while I like to take it easy, then this won't work... Forget the ages and just determine if you two click on other levels.

Ask Misty: Can a 21 year old date a 31 year old
I suggest you all go get a younger man that hasn't been soured by life's cruel ways! There are good men out there who want the same thing that you want. Manchmal zeigen wir Ihnen personalisierte Werbung, indem wir anhand Ihrer Aktivitäten auf unseren Seiten und Produkten fundierte Vermutungen über Ihre Interessen anstellen. I used to be with older men, had a 12 year relationship and 10 year marriage with a man 8 years my senior, and obviously you are a very closed -minded individual for trying to shame an older woman because she landed a younger man. The behavior is too obsessive in my opinion. I'm not attracted to her because she's 21, I'm attracted to her and she happens to be 21. Women my whole life have told me that I am very good looking. Every morning we text good morning, every night goodnight and he calls me beautiful. I am ready to love or be loved again but I am also on attacking younger guys in their late 20s, I am currently torn between 2 wonderful guys 28 and 29 years old. But the thing that gets me riled up is when these guys who get a date with these young girls think that they are something special and think they are young again.